March 17, 2021 -KMHQ
"Dear Auntie Bear,
Please share my wisdom with our people, many need to hear it. ~
You don't need another relationship to help you get over the trauma of the recent one that's ending. You don't need pu$$y/ d**k to survive and you don't need a significant other to get through your day/life. So many suggestions to "date others" to help you forget about the mess you're in and get over it. That's needy and you're basically putting all your happiness in someone else to control. Don't Do it!
Come on guys! We need to buckle up and find our own self worth that's not dependent on acceptance of other people. If you're not wired tight and have your crap together, you're going to keep future relationships in toxic states. Find your value!! Believe in yourself!! We all have something to offer. It's ok to be alone. It's more than likely not forever unless YOU choose that!
Heal, get your identity back, and quit thinking a woman/ whatever you're into is what your life needs to be completed!! Your life needs YOU! THAT'S IT! If you can't get your value back, you're never going to add much value to someone else's. Once you got your mojo back, you're confident, and value yourself, THEN think about sharing that with someone else.... otherwise you're going to keep in that toxic state and repeat the same shit show over and over.
I swear some of us feed on drama and toxicity. It's all some of us have ever known, so I get it. You/we have an opportunity to recreate our life the way we want it with knowledge that was paid with blood, hurt, and tears. Stop wasting it, man up, and get on with the show. It's your life, take control.... you're worth it!"
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