KMHQ March 18,2021
Todays heartfelt issue comes from Brad J. who titles it as "Cheating Wife"
"Ok.... So this may cause some differing opinions but interested to hear points of view.
Wife had and affair, our relationship was shitty for some time before that I can certainly acknowledge that, for no particular reason than we were simply too comfortable and took each other for granted but we were both unhappy or at least I was. I had always thought I'd be the one to cheat, but never did despite wanting to many times as it was a bottom line for me and I thought that she never would Anyways..... Wife has affair, I [l]oose my shit and after some time have tapped out of the relationship and don't want to try to fix things. Anyways now I have stepped outside of the marriage and had some fun (and f**k it's been good) I'm not looking to justify that it's ok for me to have done what I've done, but given while we were being "faithful" cheating was my bottom line… does it still count as being a final straw? "
Brad, if you were not happy within the marriage then you are right in stepping away for sure. If she was unfaithful to the marriage when it was actively in tact, all the more reason your decision is justified. Upon separating yourself, it sounds like your mind was made up in that the relationship between you was completely over and done with, so, what either of you do or don't do is none of the others business and is only between you and your conscious. Long story short, your grounds integrity remains intact and you should proceed to find happiness and enjoyment in your life, just be careful out there.
Best of luck and well wishes and thanks for reaching out!
Auntie Bear
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