Vision Quests In order to get closer to the spirits, some men went on vision quests. They would go off into the wilderness alone. Usually they would fast (not eat) and sometimes they would take drugs or inflict wounds on their bodies. In the end, they hoped to gain a vision from the spirits that would guide them or help them make an important life decision.
Adult Ceremonies
Confirmation: This is when teenage kids renew the promises made at baptism. They're anointed with oil by a bishop, a sign of the gift of the Holy Spirit. For Jews, confirmation is a religious school graduation in which students lead all or part of the service. A small gift may be given.
Bar/Bat Mitzvah: A bar mitzvah (for boys) or bat mitzvah (for girls) occurs at age 12 or 13. It marks membership in the Jewish community following years of religious education. The young person leads part of a Saturday service, in English and Hebrew. Guests attend the service, a temple reception, and often a private party. Common gifts are keepsakes, money, or a charitable donation.