Rites of Passage One of the most important times in any Native American's life was their coming of age. This was when they went from being considered a child to being an adult. Different tribes had different ways of celebrating this moment. In some tribes the boy or girl had to undergo an ordeal to prove they were worthy. Young men who passed the ritual would often be given a new name to indicate their status.
Young Adult Ceremonies
Confirmation: This is when teenage kids renew the promises made at baptism. They're anointed with oil by a bishop, a sign of the gift of the Holy Spirit. For Jews, confirmation is a religious school graduation in which students lead all or part of the service. A small gift may be given.
Bar/Bat Mitzvah: A bar mitzvah (for boys) or bat mitzvah (for girls) occurs at age 12 or 13. It marks membership in the Jewish community following years of religious education. The young person leads part of a Saturday service, in English and Hebrew. Guests attend the service, a temple reception, and often a private party. Common gifts are keepsakes, money, or a charitable donation.